Jan: There are all kinds of theories about this. Take a feminist art history class sometime to learn more about gender and art.
I’m curious as to what you said to the gallerist.
Nancy…What ran through my head was the ‘be a Jew to the Jews & a Gentile to the Gentiles’ thing, which I guess is a strategy used for missionary work…I thought that if I opened hard that I would lose the opportunity to be a witness to the curator, during a slower unrolling…But maybe a hard opening was the correct answer…Thanks…
]]>It is understandable to be uncomfortable with this question-because it is irrelevant.
It is a tough one. As a Christian myself I think for me the right answer is to be honest and say “I am Christian”. I might follow up with my own question of why is this relevant to our discussion of art?
Jesus was persecuted and those that are persecuted here on earth for their belief in him will be rewarded in the end.
Love him or hate him-when George W. Bush was asked who was the most important figure in his life –his shocking and unexpected answer of Jesus Christ–garnered him much respect.
After reading your post here Jennie, I just have to say something. I completely believe you have experienced these things.
I have a disability that is not apparent. I can only sit or stand for short periods of time and I am easily fatigued, which effects how I can present my work at say an art fair or gallery opening etc. Because of this my husband must help me and I am always amazed at how many people think he is the artist! If you saw him and knew his background, you would laugh hysterically too! But then again…I sign my name with my first two initials, so I have to remember it is a valid question. They do not automatically know the gender.
It still always amazes me that people think the way they do. I have to ask myself, where do all these beliefs about the disabled (and all the ism’s) come from? To think about how they came to believe that if your are not young/pretty/normal you can’t be a successful artist (or be anything for that matter), for example. The advertising slogan keeps going through my mind; “sex sells”, and it does and the gallery owners know this too! But in most cases…they take it too far (re: Embarrassed’s post).
My experience has been from a career in a male dominated proffession and I experienced every kind of discrimination you can think of (on one of my assessments was written, ” wears her uniform very well”…it took me a couple years to learn exactly what that meant). My biggest learning curve was watching other young/pretty/females, just take rude comments etc.
-I call it the ‘keep your head in the sand and they won’t do that to me’ syndrome. Sorry to say it but, if you think you are exempt from someones biases and prejudices, think again. Yes, it is a part of life. I try not to let it influence my actions or how I live. But, at every opportunity I have to confront those ‘beliefs’, I try to use tact and my intention is not to lash back at them (although that’s tough when one is actually offended), but to educate them on another way of thinking. Sometimes just asking them why they believe “that” can force them to confront their own prejudices. I have found that most of these people are ignorant to what they are proposing and it opens a door for them to rethink their belief…sometimes they don’t even know why they think what they are thinking. Others run when confronted!
Right or wrong, maybe it is human nature.
Remember that society is bombarded every day with how we are supposed to think through media which in turn, has influenced generations before them. Then on top of that there are regional belief systems, influenced by things such as religeon, or politics. The reasons are endless.
Let’s face it, you can not change someone else’s mind about something, but you can try to redirect them in another direction. They have to ultimately be willing to go there themselves though.
Don’t take it personally, because I don’t think it is meant to be. (Unless its made by a jealous artist who thinks they are in some sort of competition with you). ; )
Rise above, keep creating what you were meant to create for the world (whether they get it or not) and keep the hope alive that by doing this, one day the world might be a fairer place.
tb…I’m inspired by the idea of a show for The Elders…hmmmm…I’ve got a new pot to stir…I really like that idea!
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