What I can’t imagine is trying to work while I knew people might be wandering around my house! Talk about distracting – in all the years I have sporadically had my studio door open during First Fridays, I have never even considered trying to work while simultaneously attempting to engage folks, or answer questions. At the very least, it’s rude to have your back to people! At the very worst, you can’t get into any kind of mindful attentiveness if someone is going to interrupt you in the process.
When having an event in one’s home, it really makes sense to have kids, spouse, good friends, someone- help you manage the traffic and help create a more convivial atmosphere. Then afterward, make sure they know you appreciate their help.
Perhaps, there is so much generalized pressure for artists to be selling themselves and their work, that some folks feel they “ought” to be doing things for which they are not temperamentally suited.
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