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3232Risk, rejection, and resilience with Christine Aaron (114)
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https://dy-online.com/rejection-aaron-podcast/#commentsFri, 16 Jan 2026 14:46:06 +0000https://dy-online.com/rejection-aaron-podcast/You’re going to make mistakes. You will absolutely make the “wrong” decisions from time to time. And you’re going to be rejected from shows and opportunities.
You'll become more and more resilient every time you take a risk that doesn’t work out as you had intended. You’ll bounce back. And you’ll be stronger for it in the long run. Promise. Listen to how this plays out for Christine Aaron.
(New share of an episode from 2022 that is very much related what we’re doing in Essentials this season.)
We like a sure thing. The desire to eliminate risk has birthed many a promise in marketing messages. Because we keep looking for magic bullets. We continue to hope that the 1 thing that will solve all of our problems about [fill in the blank] is out there.
Still, uncertainty persists, and it’s a thorn in our side. Because, again, we would much prefer a sure thing.
I want to make what I know will sell, I’ve heard from risk-intolerant artists throughout the years.
Making art for the marketplace turns my stomach. It’s the antithesis of what art, at its core is about. This is one of the few times when I’ll should on you: You should only make art that comes from your soul. Art that must be birthed. Anything less is less than art.
Great Art Requires Risk
What is art—great art—if not a risk at the time it was made?
History books are sorely lacking in stories of people who played it safe. What boring stories those are! History is made by people who took big risks.
In order to embrace risk, we have to practice. We step into it, try it on, and, almost always, discover that it isn’t as bad as the soundtrack we were playing in our heads.
Here’s another one I hear: I want to make sure it’s the right thing to do.
Think about those words the next time you hear them come out of your mouth. When, in the history of the Universe, has anyone ever been 100% sure that their next move was the right move for their long-term happiness and success?
You want a sure thing? Go back to engineering school. There’s plenty of work for you in that field.
Mistakes and Failures Are Part of the Bargain
Christine’s artist residency at the Vermont Studio Center in November 2019. She is burning the holes she drilled for a series of tree slice sculptures.
Yes, you’re going to make mistakes. You will absolutely make the “wrong” decisions from time to time. And you’re going to be rejected from shows and opportunities. Count on them. Prepare for them. You’ll survive.
You may be a bit black and blue. But you’ll use courage muscles you never had before.
You’ll become more and more resilient every time you take a risk that doesn’t work out as you had intended. You’ll bounce back. And you’ll be stronger for it in the long run. Promise.
My guest to discuss these things on The Art Biz is Christine Aaron.
You’ll hear how she embraces risk and has come to understand the role of rejection in her art career. She also shares the tools she relies on to get back in the studio and do it all over again. Resilience.
Highlights
The unusual motivation behind Christine’s first watercolor class selection. (2:08)
Taking risks and challenging yourself in a rewarding art career. (5:31)
Refining your art by sharing it with and soliciting critique from others. (12:45)
Identifying your safe zone and moving beyond it. (21:45)
Taking on the work that pushes you out of your comfort zone. (25:12)
Name the risks to work your way through the potential rejection. (32:57)
What rejection really means about the work that you’re doing. (39:46)
Honing your resilience skills amid rejection. (40:35)
Stop comparing yourself to other artists and remember how far you’ve come. (45:45)
Reflecting on your work, your processes, and your improvement. (47:06)
The risks that Christine is going to take in 2022. (48:00)
Christine Aaron is a conceptual and material focused artist. Her work is exhibited nationally and internationally. Aaron received an artist’s grant from ArtsWestchester—New York State Council on The Arts, a Surface Design Association grant, and a residency and grant from Vermont Studio Center. She presents talks at The International Encaustic Conference in Provincetown, MA, received awards in printmaking and mixed media, and had a solo exhibit of The Memory Project at California Museum of Art Thousand Oaks.
Aaron holds a BS in education from Cornell University and a Masters in Social Work from Hunter College. She lives and maintains a studio in New Rochelle, NY.
]]>https://dy-online.com/rejection-aaron-podcast/feed/7Practicing steady confidence as an artist (253)
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Thu, 08 Jan 2026 14:31:04 +0000https://dy-online.com/?p=56558After 23 years teaching artists, I realized something uncomfortable: I’ve been contributing to information overwhelm. The problem isn't that you don't know enough—it's building confidence to act on what you already know.
This episode reveals the confidence killers that derail your plans and six practical ways to build the steady foundation you need to keep showing up for your art business.
In episode 251 of The Art Biz I shared something uncomfortable: for 23 years, I’ve been teaching you what to do, creating over 80 learning modules, publishing a book and hundreds of podcast episodes. So much content!
But that’s not where the discomfort is. I’m proud of all of that.
The thing is that information is no longer scarce. It’s everywhere! My discomfort is knowing that I keep adding to the pile.
The real challenge isn’t learning more—it’s building the confidence to act on what you already know.
That realization has been changing everything about how I work. And it’s at the heart of why so many of your good intentions don’t go anywhere. That’s what the latest episode of The Art Biz podcast is about.
The Pattern We All Recognize
We’re at the beginning of a new year, so let’s talk about what typically happens in January.
You make a beautiful plan. Maybe you take a planning workshop (perhaps mine). You get clear on your goals, map out your focus projects, feel energized and ready. You’re determined to make this your best year yet.
And then February happens.
That rejection email lands. You see someone on Instagram doing everything you wish you were doing. Your inner critic pipes up: “Who do you think you are?” The plan that felt so clear in January starts to feel impossible by Valentine’s Day.
Listen
What I’ve learned from teaching planning workshops for more than five years is that most artists already know what they want to accomplish.
What derails the plan isn’t lack of ambition—it’s what happens when confidence wavers. You stop trusting yourself to follow through when doubt shows up. You stop believing in your work when comparison strikes.
If you recognize these patterns, you can catch them early.
Limiting Self-Talk
Listen to the phrases that loop through your mind. “I’m bad at marketing.” “I’m not a business person.”
These aren’t truths. They’re stories you’ve been telling yourself so long they feel true. Try replacing “I am bad at…” with “I am working on…” That small shift changes everything.
Beliefs That Aren't Actually True
Most of us carry old stories about what we’re capable of. Maybe a teacher told you that you weren’t business-minded. Maybe your family dismissed your art as just a hobby. These old stories cast long shadows.
Ask yourself: Where did this belief come from? Is it actually true, or is it just familiar?
Perfectionism
When you tell yourself “I’m a perfectionist,” you’re reinforcing a form of procrastination.
Perfectionism keeps you safe and small.
The antidote? Lower the bar for what counts as “done” in your business tasks. Send the imperfect email. Post the not-quite-polished photo. Done and imperfect beats unfinished every single time.
The Inner Critics
“Who do you think you are?” “Why would anyone care about your work?”
These aren’t insights—they’re just noise.
When you hear them, imagine you’re firing them. “Thank you for your input. You’re dismissed.”
Or ask them: “What are you trying to protect me from?” Usually it’s rejection or failure, which you need to learn to embrace as part of building anything meaningful.
That brings me to …
The Outside Critics
When you put your art into the world, you become vulnerable to rejection, harsh words, and sometimes worst of all, indifference.
You can (and should) learn from the right people who offer thoughtful feedback. But most criticism—especially the harsh kind—tells you more about the critic than about your work.
Confidence isn’t something you acquire once and keep forever. It comes and goes.
The work isn’t about achieving confidence—it’s about building practices that help you return to solid ground when it wavers.
Practice #1: Self-care
When you’re physically and mentally healthy, you hold your head up higher. You speak more clearly. You take more creative risks. Sleep, movement, real food, time away from screens.
When you feel strong, you’re more willing to try.
Practice #2: Visualization
Visualize the future you want and the artist you’re becoming.
As my friend Gwen Fox says: “What you think about is what you bring about.” This means directing your mental energy toward what you want to create rather than ruminating on what you fear.
Practice #3: Affirmations
Not “I am wildly successful” if that feels like a lie. But “I am someone who shows up consistently” or “I am building a sustainable art business.”
Write them. Read them daily. Repeat them when the inner critics get loud.
Practice #4: Name Your Wins
Every day, write down what you accomplished. Not what you learned, but what you did. “I sent three emails to galleries.” “I posted twice this week without overthinking it.”
Keep these wins nearby for when doubt strikes.
Practice #5: Recall the Words of Others
Keep a file labeled “Loved.” Fill it with emails that say nice things about your work, comments that make you feel good, documentation of kind words from openings or your booth.
Whenever you feel down, pull out your Loved file and remember that people appreciate you and what you do.
The plan itself isn’t the problem. Planning is essential. But you need both the plan and the foundation.
When you make your plan, build in practices that keep confidence (your foundation) steady.
Daily check-ins and weekly reviews where you name wins.
One practice per week that directly addresses a confidence killer.
Community and accountability with people who understand the internal work required to keep showing up.
Space to reflect and adjust, because that’s not failure. That’s responsive leadership of your own business.
For the first time, I’m offering a single-season option for Essentials: four months focused entirely on building steady confidence.
You’ll get weekly practices, community support, and access to all learning modules when you need them—not as more content to consume, but as backup when you’re ready to apply it.
The Own Your Year planning workshop that comes with Essentials gives you the plan. The season gives you the practices to meet your goals.
You already have so much knowledge. You know what needs to happen in your art business. What you’re building now is the steadiness to do it even when it’s hard. Even when you don’t feel like it. Even when the voices get loud.
ACTION
This week, start one confidence-building practice. Choose what resonates most: begin a daily wins list, create your “loved” file, write one affirmation, or commit to one self-care practice. Pick one and practice it consistently. You already know enough—now it’s time to trust yourself to use it.
]]>It’s not your job to worry about adding to the noise (233)
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https://dy-online.com/noise/#commentsThu, 24 Jul 2025 11:19:00 +0000https://dy-online.com/?p=54409Tired of overthinking every post and wondering if you’re just adding to the noise? You’re not alone. And you’re not the noise.
This episode calls out the perfectionism hiding behind “quality over quantity” and reminds you what your real job is: to show up, share the work, and let the right people catch on. No false hype, no algorithm games, just honest strategy and a clear path forward for thoughtful artists.
You know, every time I sit down to record an episode of The Art Biz, I feel this pressure bubble up in my chest.
Like… this better be worth my time. And in order for it to be worth my time, it had better be worth your time.
You are busy. You’re juggling a lot in and out of the studio.
The last thing I want to do is publish something that feels like filler. Like background noise. Like another reel with lo-fi music and a cryptic caption—while you’re over there wondering if any of this is actually connecting to anyone.
I want every episode to feel like a deep breath. Or a permission slip. Or a really good side-hug with solid advice baked in. Something that sticks with you later when you’re brushing your teeth and thinking about how to show up for your work.
I love it when artists tell me they hear my voice as they’re working.
And that brings me to today’s topic—one I’ve heard come up again and again from artists in our community. It’s a fear of contributing to the noise.
That little voice that says, “Don’t post it. Everyone’s already saying that.”
“Don’t post it. I already said it before.”
“Don’t post it. There is so much out there that is better than this.”
Or: “If it’s not perfect, don’t bother.”
Don't post it.
Everyone's already saying that.
Don't post it.
I already said it before.
I hear this all the time from artists, makers, creative entrepreneurs—especially the thoughtful ones. The ones who genuinely care about the impact of their work.
So today, we’re going to talk about it.
This is for you if you want to share authentically but don’t want to sell out, sound fake, or feed the algorithm monster.
You’re not here to add to the noise.
You’re here to resonate. To be a beacon.
Let’s get into it.
Listen
Where the Fear Comes From
Here’s the truth: the people who worry about “contributing to the noise” are almost never the ones actually making it. Right?
If you are that self-aware, you definitely aren’t contributing to the noise.
Noise comes from shouting, chasing trends, and empty posts designed to manipulate or impress.
But if you’re someone who pauses before you hit publish … If you’re trying to be thoughtful, or honest, or useful … If you feel like your content should have a soul …
You definitely are not the noise.
When you speak from alignment, you become the signal amid the noise.
And the fear you feel before you share? That’s a signal too. Not a stop sign—just a message from your nervous system saying, “This matters. This is real. Pay attention.”
That you care. That you want your work to land. That you’re trying to be intentional, not performative.
But sometimes we use “I don’t want to add to the noise” as a very elegant-sounding excuse not to show up at all.
Trust me, I’ve done it.
When you speak from alignment, you become the signal among the noise.
Quality vs. Quantity
Let’s talk about this whole “quality over quantity” thing.
It sounds noble. Like you’re taking the high road when you say you embrace quality over quantity.
But if you scratch at it just a little, it starts to fall apart.
Because you can’t create quality in a vacuum. You don’t find your voice by thinking about it for two years.
You find it by using it. In your studio and when you take the work out of the studio and share it with others—in real life or online.
That doesn’t mean you post every day just for the sake of consistency. It means you show up for the process. You improve quality over time—through practice, through repetition, through doing the work again and again. Just like you do in the studio.
Some of my best posts? I wrote or recorded them in five minutes.
Some of the ones I labored over? Crickets.
That’s how this works.
If your standard for quality is “perfectly polished and universally beloved,” you’ll never share anything. How could you live up to that?
But if your standard is “true, useful, and aligned”? That’s a game you can actually play—and win.
And look—I think we need to name something here before moving on.
A lot of the time, when we say “quality over quantity,”’ we’re not actually talking about strategy. We’re talking about perfectionism.
It just sounds better when we wrap it in honorable language.
But really? It’s too often used as a delay tactic. A form of self-protection. Because what we’re scared of is not being good enough. Or being judged. Or being ignored.
And I get it—showing up is vulnerable. Especially when your work is personal.
Perfectionism loves to masquerade as professionalism.
It says, Wait. Hold back. Make it better first. And if you listen to that voice every time? You stay invisible.
Let’s break that down. What makes something quality?
To me, it’s not production value or polish. Quality means:
Honest.
Helpful.
Inspiring.
Resonant.
Enlightening.
Sometimes it’s messy. Sometimes it’s short. Sometimes it’s something you almost didn’t post because it felt too small.
But here’s the magic part: the stuff that feels obvious or boring to you? That’s often the exact thing someone else needs to hear.
The encouragement you give a friend in your DMs? That’s content.
The process you walk yourself through in your journal? That’s content.
The way you describe your work to someone at a dinner party? You got it. Content.
You don’t need to invent brilliance. You just need to pay attention to what you’re already doing—and amplify it with intention.
Because sometimes we’re the ones who need to hear our own message the most.
Trusting That Your Work Will Reach the Right People
You can’t control who sees your work.
You can tweak your captions, research hashtags, post at the perfect time … and it still might flop. Or it might reach one person—and they might remember it forever.
So instead of obsessing over how to “reach more people,” what if you asked: “What do I need to say today—even if it only helps one person?”
And what if that one person… was you?
Because sometimes we’re the ones who need to hear our own message the most. And in saying it out loud, we make space for others to connect to it, too.
Your content doesn’t have to go viral. It just has to go out.
You don’t need everyone to hear you. You just need the right people. And they can’t find you if you’re hiding behind a fear of not contributing to the noise.
A Few Gentle Shifts
If you’ve been stuck in “quality over quantity” mode or just find yourself not wanting to contribute to the noise, try these shifts.
Shift from performance to presence. You don’t need to impress anyone. Just be here. For yourself, for the work, and for others.
Shift from broadcasting to connecting. Stop thinking of your posts or emails as megaphones and start thinking of them as conversation starters.
Shift from perfection to permission. What would you share if you didn’t need it to be amazing—just real?
What have you been afraid to share? What have you started but not finished?
Silence can feel safe, but it’s not where your people will find you and your art.
You don’t have to post more or send more emails just to keep up with it all.
You don’t have to bow to the algorithms or pretend that every message needs to be hyped. (Please … Stop the false hype!)
But you do have to show up—with honesty, with trust, and with enough consistency to be reliable.
Because you’re not here to contribute to the noise. You’re not here to make the perfect piece of content.
You’re here for the people who are actually listening. The ones who are waiting—consciously or not—to be moved, grounded, sparked, or seen by what you do.
And here’s an eye-opener: You don’t get to choose who those people are. I know you know this intellectually, but let it sink in.
It’s not up to you to decide whether or not your message has value. It’s only up to you to honor it.
It’s not up to you to decide whether or not your message has value.
Hit publish. Say the thing. You never know who needs to see or hear it.
]]>https://dy-online.com/noise/feed/2Dealing with rejection with Megan Wimberley (197)
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Thu, 25 Jul 2024 12:15:00 +0000https://dy-online.com/?p=50379Rejection is a part of every artist’s journey, essential for growth and success. Megan Wimberley, artist and founder of Cowgirl Artists of America, offers a framework to help artists move past rejection. She emphasizes the importance of mindfulness and professionalism in managing setbacks.
By embracing rejection, artists can push their boundaries, take more risks, and ultimately protect and elevate their reputations.
The good news about rejection is that you are not alone. Every artist who wants to attain a higher level of accomplishment must deal with rejection. If you aren’t counting your rejections, you aren’t taking risks or stretching your goals.
The bad news is … well … You’ve been rejected. And that feels awful. But you can’t let it stop you.
Help is here!
My guest for this episode of The Art Biz is Megan Wimberley, who wants to help you move past rejection. As both an artist and a founder of the Cowgirl Artists of America organization, she has experienced both sides of the process.
We discuss Megan’s framework for dealing with rejection, including the importance of emotional intelligence, mindfulness, and learning from the rejection—all in the service of elevating your professionalism and protecting your reputation.
“Sometimes when I’m dealing with something challenging and feeling big emotions, I imagine that I’m holding this little emotion in my hand and I say, ‘What are you trying to tell me? Because our emotions are trying to tell us something.’ ” —Megan Wimberley
“Because when we name the emotion, it’s this weird little thing in our brain. It takes a little bit of that sting and that power away.” —Megan Wimberley
“What you are communicating when you submit a poor application is I am not trustworthy.” —Megan Wimberley
“Tearing other people down is never going to lift you up.” —Alyson Stanfield
From the moment Megan Wimberley could cling to a saddle horn, legs barely long enough to sit a horse, she was in love. Her fascination with the wild and domestic animals of the American West has dominated much of her life. She explores our connection with these animals, drawing on her experiences with horses, dogs, and cattle.
As founder of Cowgirl Artists of America, she champions female artists in the Western genre. Despite battling Rheumatoid Arthritis, Wimberley continues to create and inspire. Her work has been featured in Mountain Oyster Show and Cowgirl Up! among others.
]]>Beyond comparison and jealousy with Jason Kotecki (191)
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https://dy-online.com/kotecki-comparison/#commentsThu, 30 May 2024 11:42:00 +0000https://dy-online.com/?p=49596More than 10 years ago in a crowded conference in Philadelphia, artist-writer-speaker Jason Kotecki had an epiphany. He realized that he had a talent stack that could set himself apart from other speakers.
In this conversation, Jason encourages you to find the additional gifts that will differentiate you from other artists and allow you to move beyond comparanoia and jealousy. We also discuss his income streams and collaborating with his wife, Kim.
What “game” are you playing in your art business and in life?
Artist-writer-speaker Jason Kotecki makes the point that you have a unique game plan to follow—one that can’t be compared to another artist or online personality.
Comparing yourself to others is taking you off course and leading you down a path that was never intended for you.
More than 10 years ago, Jason—surrounded by hundreds of people at a conference in a Philadelphia ballroom—had an epiphany when he figured out his game plan of merging his artistic and speaking talents. He quit trying to be someone else and started using all of his gifts to set himself apart.
In this episode of The Art Biz, Jason and I discuss:
Practical steps you can take to curb our tendency to compare ourselves to others, which can often lead to jealousy.
The benefits of having a “talent stack” to differentiate yourself.
Matt Foley, Chris Farley’s motivational speaker character on SNL—I had to watch this again for a good afternoon chuckle
Jason Kotecki Quotes
“I started to really think bigger about how I could incorporate my different talents.”
“It doesn’t do us any good to whine or complain or put ourselves down because of, or wish for someone else’s ‘must be nice.’ Our job is to figure out what ours are.”
“Comparison can be really good in a healthy way when we’re looking at where we want to improve—what we can learn from them.”
“Really drill down on what you are about. Why are you doing this? And when you have that certainty, it’s a little bit easier when you’re making this comparison.”
“The more we see ourselves like someone, the more likely we are to compare ourselves.”
“When we’re playing the comparison game, we don’t see the hard road they took to get there. The sleepless nights, the effort they put in.”
Jason Kotecki is an artist, author and professional speaker. Jason and his wife Kim have made it their mission in life to help people and organizations break free from Adultitis to build better lives, businesses, and teams. His colorful and whimsical art has been licensed and collected all over the world. He is the author of seven books, including Must Be Nice: Your Guide to Growing Beyond the Compare Game. An avid eater of sugar-laden cereal, Jason enjoys Star Wars, soft t-shirts, and brand new tubes of paint. He and Kim homeschool their three weird kids and live in Sheboygan, Wisconsin where they eat way too many cheese curds.
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https://dy-online.com/growth-minded-artists/#commentsThu, 25 Apr 2024 11:45:00 +0000http://artbizsuccess.com/?p=17373I want to talk about something that gets in the way of how you think your art business possibilities: The ladder of success.
I want to help you reframe your daily decisions, actions, and results (or lack thereof)—to embrace the volatility of an artist life. To understand that there will be highs and lows, and that just comes along with the territory. To do this, let's consider a circle rather than a ladder.
I want to help you reframe your daily decisions, actions, and results (or lack thereof)—to embrace the volatility of an artist life. To understand that there will be highs and lows, and that just comes along with the territory.
Why The Ladder of Success is Problematic
One of the most-used business metaphors is the ladder of success. When you picture a ladder of success, it’s assumed that you start at the bottom and work your way to the top in a predictable, progressive fashion.
You’re always going up head first—getting closer to the ultimate success goal at the top with each step.
What is left out of this visual are the detours, backslides, and missteps that occur on the way to the top.
It would be wonderful if you were always assured that your next step would be the right one to move you up the ladder. The irony is that while waiting for that assurance, you are delaying success.
Even a circuitous path with mistakes and failures will get you to the top faster than waiting for the right circumstances. As we like to say in our Art Biz Success classes and community, one step at a time and every step counts.
Every. Step.
Counts.
Listen
Mistakes and failures are your teachers, and you need them. They are red blinking lights that say, “This isn’t working for me. Go back and try again.” Or, more likely, “Do something differently.”
If you’re not failing at some points, you aren’t growing or progressing. You’ve got to become okay with making the wrong moves from time to time.
And yet … You never picture yourself on a ladder of success going backward, butt first, down the ladder—or falling off of it completely. That doesn’t conform to the narrative, but that’s exactly what happens.
You know this, but it has to be said … There is no such thing as a straight path to the top.
On the way to the top, you’re getting plenty of exercise running in circles. Perhaps falling behind—or what feels like falling behind because you’re so darn anxious for good things to happen. In reality, you’re picking up skills, learning life lessons, and becoming more agile.
If it’s too easy, you’re either doing something wrong or haven’t set the bar high enough.
So that’s my first beef with the ladder of success metaphor: It’s not a 1-way, nonstop trip to the top.
What Happens At The Top
There is another reason that the ladder of success is problematic.
Continue picturing the ladder. There you are at the bottom with your goal at the top.
What happens when you get to the top? Is it all over? Are you done with everything?
I have never heard of a single artist who thinks they’ve attained the highest level possible in their career.
I think that’s why I have a problem with the word “success”, even though I lead an artist coaching business and community under the Art Biz Success umbrella. Check out episode 165, How to Feel Like a Successful Artist, where I talked about why it’s so important to define success for yourself.
Regardless of the definition of success you settle on, growth-minded artists keep moving the target for success. They’re never quite satisfied with the status quo.
You will keep going for as long as you breathe.
You’re creative, after all. You want to learn more, improve your art, and flourish from accepting new challenges.
You want your art to be seen by more people, to be acquired by ever-prestigious collectors and institutions, and to leave a legacy.
Artists don’t reach the top and retire. They keep going!
So, if it’s not a ladder, what does your growth as an artist and artist businessperson look like?
You (The Sphere) in the Art Biz Circle
How about a circle? This is a concept I first introduced in 2014 and have recently refined.
Rather than climbing up a ladder, I envision you, the artist, in the middle of a circle.
For fun, let’s say it’s a circular room. The room is divided like a pie chart with equal slices for the 3 primary areas that comprise an artist’s life and business: Inspiration + Research, Studio Practice, and Marketing + Business.
There are no walls between the sections, but you can see the difference because the carpet is a different color in each slice of pie.
Yes, carpet. (Go ahead, choose your favorite colors for this carpet lining your imaginary circular room. At what other time in your life will you be confidently committed to a magenta pile?)
Oh yeah, add some padded walls to your colorful, circular room. The plush surfaces aren’t an indication of your mental state. They’re to soften the blow because you’re bouncing from one area of your business and back again—from the studio, to your office, to the library, back to the computer, gotta get back to the studio …
You’re a life-size ping pong ball—a sphere within the circle—propelled by tremendous energy that comes from experimentation, luck, and promising results.
You are on a roll in the studio and engrossed in your latest area of research. Or you’re on a high from exhibition sales or enrollments for your workshop.
Then something happens and you lose momentum.
You come to a halt when you encounter rejection, criticism, health problems, and unforeseen personal woes. It’s easy for you, as said ping pong ball, to stop because, remember, the floor is carpeted—not a natural conduit for maintaining a high level of energy.
But I’m getting ahead of myself.
The 3 Primary Areas of Your Artist Life
Again, the 3 primary areas of your artist life are Inspiration + Research, Studio Practice, and Marketing + Business.
Inspiration + Research
Studio Practice
Marketing + Business
We could break down these large categories if we wanted.
Inspiration could be separate from Research, but where does one begin and the other end? Together, they are an arguably essential aspect to every serious artist’s studio practice, but they aren’t forgotten when you enter your den of making.
Inspiration + Research are mandatory to the continual push-pull process of creating. I’ve removed them from the Studio Practice area because I want to make sure all of my artist-clients and -students give enough of their time to I+R.
I+R is the fuel for whatever you make in the studio. It’s where you might return when things aren’t coming together as planned. It’s where you go when you are ready to begin a new work or series.
Let’s keep it simple and stick to these 3 areas and see what that looks like on a practical level.
Dividing Up Your Limited Time
Your imaginary padded and carpeted circular room has equal-sized pie slices because each of these areas of your artist life needs equal attention.
But that doesn’t mean that they are perfectly balanced. Ever.
It is rare that you would have a day or a week where you divided your time equally among your research, practice, and business. Don’t even try.
You move back and forth within the circle as your focus changes, depending on your goals and obligations. (Thus the need for something soft to land on.)
You might stay gleefully in studio mode for a week or two as you prepare for a show. Everything else gets minimal attention. (1)
It would be just as easy to find yourself frequently consumed by planning, learning, writing, marketing, and networking. (2)
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And don’t forget the times when, say, following a big show or event, you are depleted and need a vacation. Or you need to take a class or immerse yourself in a new subject to fill your well for new work. (3) You stay out of the studio, but publish your newsletter or post a couple of things to Instagram. Yay you!
Then You Do It All Over Again
Here’s thing. You are repeating the same tasks over and over. Regardless of where you are in your artist life.
This is why the learning modules in my Essentials for Artist Success classes were made so that they can be reused. You grow as an artist, but the tasks remain the same.
You need to rewrite your artist statement because your work has evolved. Or update your networking plan because your career growth demands that you connect with new people who can help you reach another goal. Or find new venues because you have outgrown the ones who are currently showing and selling your art.
The steps are the same, but the details are more customized and refined—reflecting the new artist you have become.
Your Journey
To review … You don’t finish a marketing task and declare you’re done with it. You know you must return to it in the future. Ditto for inspiration and studio. You’re repeating many of the same things to build your business, month after month and year after year.
With this consistency and repetition, you become more sophisticated. You learn what does and doesn’t work, you adapt, and you add new tools, strategies, and technology. You expand.
So rather than looking like a ladder, your business growth looks like an expanding sphere (again, the sphere is you) within the circle.
You bounce around—backtracking, retracing steps, and searching for new paths that are more aligned with your current professional level and life circumstances.
The sphere gathers mass and gets larger. You’re growing as a result of all you have learned and accomplished within areas of your art business. And because you have new responsibilities.
You are moving forward and upward because you’re taking consistent action. Yes, there are still mistakes and failures, but the net, because of that consistency, is positive growth.
Each artist finds their personal trajectory. You will find your own way.
Again, I hope this helps you think about your art business in new ways—perhaps giving yourself a little grace with every misstep or inconsistency. Keep taking action.
This post was first published on March 26, 2014 and updated on April 11, 2018. It has been greatly expanded with the addition of a podcast episode. Original comments are intact.
]]>https://dy-online.com/growth-minded-artists/feed/41What your failures are teaching you with Laura Petrovich-Cheney (95)
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https://dy-online.com/failure-cheney-podcast/#commentsThu, 29 Jul 2021 11:08:16 +0000https://dy-online.com/?p=32221Failure is necessary for growth. If you are succeeding at everything, there is no way you're learning and growing.
Laura talks about a few failures she has learned from, why it's helpful to have a little bit of time and space before examining failures, and the shame that gets in the way of sharing failure with others. We also discuss the inevitable comparisons with other artists that arise when you fail and see only their successes.
Laura Petrovich-Cheney is not afraid to fail. She’s also ambitious and knows what she wants.
In this episode of the Art Biz Podcast, you’ll hear Laura’s philosophy that failure is the result of not listening to your instincts and not doing your best. This builds on what Leah Smithson was talking about in episode 94 when she said how important it was to listen to her gut to avoid what she called disasters.
We tend to sweep failures under the rug—hoping that nobody will see or notice and that we’ll forget about them. But, as you’ll hear from Laura, we can’t improve without examining what went wrong.
Laura talks about a few failures she has learned from, why it’s helpful to have a little bit of time and space before examining failures, and the shame that gets in the way of sharing failure with others. We also discuss the inevitable comparisons with other artists that arise when you fail and see only their successes.
“Failure is primarily a lack of listening to your intuition.” — Laura Petrovich-Cheney
“If you really tried your best and you were only capable of a mediocre performance, that’s still your best.” — Laura Petrovich-Cheney
“Failing to learn from an experience is another failure.” — Alyson Stanfield
“In the failure, you learn how to do something better. And that sometimes is a bigger success.” — Laura Petrovich-Cheney
“Listening to your intuition and honoring who you are is so important to being successful.” — Laura Petrovich-Cheney
About My Guest
Laura Petrovich-Cheneyis a contemporary sculptor working with salvaged wood collected after living through an environmental disaster. A former fashion designer and art educator, she is directly inspired by quilts and weavings. With her salvaged wood, she explores themes related to feminist identity, contemporary craft, and stories of loss and transformation.
She was a 2017 New Jersey Council on the Arts Fellow in Sculpture and a 2021 Massachusetts Cultural Council Fellow in Craft.
]]>https://dy-online.com/failure-cheney-podcast/feed/1Are you playing it too safe in your art business? (92)
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https://dy-online.com/assess-the-risk/#commentsThu, 08 Jul 2021 13:45:26 +0000http://artbizcoach.com/newsletter/?p=65We are hard wired for self-protection.
The moment we smell risk, our physical bodies start preparing for the encounter. Our mental faculties begin telling us how we can avoid it or, short of that, deal with it.
There is no room for growth when you focus on avoiding risk. Here are a few areas in which you might be playing it too safe in your art business.
The moment we smell risk, our physical bodies start preparing for the encounter. Our mental faculties begin telling us how we can avoid it or, short of that, deal with it.
This is a convenient human feature you were given. It keeps you safe. But it can also keep you small when you give it all the power for decision-making. It can hold you back from becoming the person you dream of becoming and the artist you were meant to be in the world.
Playing It Too Safe
I want to share some of the ways you might be allowing your built-in sensor to rule your life and impede your growth. See if any of these ring true.
You enter the same exhibitions year after year.
When you just started your art business, you began entering juried shows. You found one that was a good fit. You got in. Yay you! That wasn’t so bad. So you enter again the next year. And then the next.
Juried shows are a natural first step for artists, but what I’ve witnessed is that many artists use them like a crutch. They’re easy and comfortable.
You maintain membership in a group whose members are not growing.
This is similar to sticking to the same shows year after year. You’re comfortable with the people you already know, so it’s easy to stay involved. The problem, of course, is that you get frustrated because the group members aren’t thinking at the same level you are. You become angry and resentful about the time it’s taking up.
There’s no reason to get mad. You can’t expect a large group of people to suddenly change their ways. It’s you who is growing. It’s your responsibility (to yourself and to other members) to move on.
You stick close to friends at art openings rather than meeting new people.
We are all guilty of this. Art openings aren’t a natural place to walk around introducing yourself to new people. But leaving at the end without meeting a single new person is almost a waste of time. Because we all know that nobody attends openings to look at the art. You can always do that later.
You promote your art in the same way, day after day, month after month, and year after year.
There is much to say for consistency. You have to promote consistently for months in order to gain traction. But how do you know if you might get better results from a different approach if you don’t try? If you don’t tweak your strategies every now and then?
If any of these sound familiar, I challenge you to get a little uncomfortable with your art, with your marketing, and in your life. I challenge you to take more risks.
Let’s face it. You take a risk whenever you get out of bed in the morning. You don’t know what ominous messages are in your inbox or what the rest of the day holds for you. It’s much safer to stay under the covers.
You take a risk every time you put a batch of pottery into the kiln. I hope they all come out right and nothing explodes or breaks.
Or point your lens to snap a shot. I have one chance to capture this moment.
Or start applying paint to that spendy extra large canvas you wanted to tackle. Here I go!
You take a risk signing up for a new course by an unknown-to-you teacher. It sounds great and, fingers crossed, it will give you exactly what you need. Until you realize that you actually have to do the work. There is no guaranteed transformation and zero chance of growth until you do the work.
I see hope fizzle all of the time with our students in the Art Career Success System. They start out gung ho and then it gets hard. No way no how do I promise a magic pill.
What I do promise is an art business system that is customized to what they need now, but they’re going to have to create it using my lessons, forms, and worksheets. They have to carve out the time to learn in their schedules, face the content one lesson at a time, and show up for our strategy sessions for added support and answers.
It’s a risk that only the most dedicated of artists accept. If you’re willing to do this, I hope you’ll check out our art biz system.
Life is full of risks, and nothing is certain. But some things seem to be riskier than others–like leaving a day job to devote time to your art. This is on the extreme end of the spectrum because your livelihood is at stake.
Wait. Maybe leaving a day job isn’t as extreme as it sounds. Uncomfortable moves in your art business that could affect your livelihood—positively or negatively—await your decision every day.
For example … You’ve thought about it for awhile. Your work has matured and you believe it’s time to begin approaching galleries. This is a huge step, and the very thought of it makes you break into hives.
Or you are inspired to begin a multi-year project that is close to your heart and will require you to step out of the studio and get in front of more people. Yikes! But you can do it. Take a lesson from Eve Jacobs-Carnahan’s Knit Democracy Together project.
Or Marilyn Artus’s Her Flag project. As I record this, Marilyn’s flag is hanging outside on the building of the National Museum of Women in the Arts in Washington, D.C. Both of those artists took massive risks.
But let’s lower the stakes. Even something as innocuous as sending an email to your list strikes fear in your soul when you have neglected staying in touch. This is a much smaller risk, but it seems enormous when you’re in the middle of it.
When we talk about taking risks, we have to consider what is actually at risk.
It might be, as mentioned, your livelihood. Your income could plummet.
You might be risking rejection, hurt feelings (yours or someone else’s), jealousy, and even your reputation.
You might be risking opportunities that wouldn’t be available to you if you selected a certain path.
And … It must be said … You might also be risking a shot at more income, attention, a more prestigious reputation, acceptance, deeper connection, and new opportunities.
When looking at opportunities, try journaling about the situation. Sit with your cup of coffee and begin free writing about the decision at hand. Get it all out.
After this, you can organize your thoughts on a new piece of paper. At the top of the page, write down clearly what you’re considering. Then add 2 columns below.
The left column is labeled What I Have to Gain and the right column is, you guessed it, What I Have to Lose. You know what to do next. Start building your lists.
Look them over. Analyze the advantages and disadvantages. Maybe there is a clear winner and you know what to do next.
Or perhaps, as is more likely, there is a clear winner and you are still filled with doubt. It’s probably because you are facing something new and different. There is a bit of fear involved.
You would, ahem, have to take a risk.
The Zone of Discomfort
In what I refer to as the Zone of Discomfort, you seek new ideas, knowledge, and clarity. You want to test what is possible. You want to innovate, improve, increase, enhance. You want to grow.
And, as I said earlier, growth demands risk. Don’t even think about moving up a level without being prepared to face a little risk.
If, after journaling and assessing the risk, you’re still not convinced that you’re ready for the challenge, ask yourself questions that I use in these situations.
What’s the absolute best thing that can happen if I put myself in this uncomfortable situation? How would that feel?
What’s the worst that can happen if I put myself in this uncomfortable situation? If this does happen, can I live with it?
One year from today, looking back, will I be happier if I took the risk or if I played it safe? If the best scenario could happen right now, why would I postpone the results?
I hope you see in these questions that I’m not asking you to take risks simply for the sake of taking risks. I want there to be meaning behind your risk-taking. Purpose in your steps.
Nor do I want you to take too many risks at once. Exercise that risk-taking muscle as if you’re in training. There is no need to stay stay uncomfortable for long, but you do want to be there long enough to stretch your potential.
You can do this. It’s the only way to reap the rewards you seek.
If you are ready to risk success but don’t yet have the business structure in place that would support your growth and goals, please join me for the on-demand courses, community forum, and live connections with like-minded artists in the Art Career Success System.
This post was first published on September 1, 2008. It has been updated and expanded with original comments intact.
]]>https://dy-online.com/assess-the-risk/feed/2Tools to help you emerge from a struggle even stronger than before with Kelly Milukas (83)
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https://dy-online.com/stronger-milukas-podcast/#commentsThu, 08 Apr 2021 11:50:06 +0000https://dy-online.com/?p=31730Kelly and I scheduled our conversation to discuss her "life edit," which involved getting rid of what no longer served her. It quickly became apparent that ridding herself of stuff when she had to downsize her studio is something she had been preparing herself for in the many years leading up to that moment.
Her story is one of perseverance and joy. She was eager to discuss the many tools she used to facilitate her healing and the people she relied on along the way.
This month we’re focusing on the benefits of cleaning out—removing physical clutter that leads to disorganization, eliminating obligations that are no longer serving you, and slowing down enough to focus on what matters most, in your art business and in your life.
Kelly Milukas has been through more in the last 10 years than anyone should have to endure, and yet she never lost hope and determination. My conversation with her is about coming out the other side of a long struggle stronger than you were previously.
Kelly and I scheduled our conversation for this episode of The Art Biz podcast to discuss her “life edit,” which involved getting rid of what no longer served her. It quickly became apparent that ridding herself of stuff when she had to downsize her studio is something she had been preparing herself for in the many years leading up to that moment.
Her story is one of perseverance and joy. She was eager to discuss the many tools she used to facilitate her healing and the people she relied on along the way.
I hope Kelly inspires you to rid your life, with the help of proper tools and support, of what might be getting in the way of your happiness.
Everything has a new home in Kelly’s new studio, and space is maximized for efficiency.
Kelly Milukas Quotes
“If you open up your heart and mind to knowing that if you get people to help you and put them on your team, those right people are going to appear.”
“When you’re in the middle, the really difficult middle, you’re going to come out the other side, but it’s up to you how you come out. You can come out stronger.”
“Nothing is really needed. It’s what’s inside you and around you and you can be so joyful without things.”
“I’m happy. I’m full of joy and I’m full of what’s next.”
About Kelly Milukas
Kelly Milukas began as a sculptor and has expanded her art making to multiple mediums and projects. Her portfolio of work includes painting, pastel, photography, encaustic and cast resin sculpture.
As of 2010 her art making has taken on projects at the juncture of creativity and science. This body of work contains her nationally exhibited “Keys to the Cures” series and focuses on how art can facilitate the individual stories within science and medicine. Kelly’s artwork can be found in museums, private and corporate collections, such as The Boston Group, Intarcia Therapeutics, and Simpson Healthcare.
]]>https://dy-online.com/stronger-milukas-podcast/feed/5Beware of “I am not”
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https://dy-online.com/i-am-not/#commentsSat, 01 Aug 2020 11:00:49 +0000http://artbizsuccess.com/?p=13473You can’t say, “I’m terrible at marketing” without being terrible at marketing.
Whenever you find you’re defining yourself in the negative, remember that you have the power to shape your story. How you choose to define yourself will influence how others look at you and think of you.
Will you define yourself in terms of limitations and failings or in terms hopes and aspirations?
I’ve been particularly sensitive to students and clients who utter the words “I’m bad” at this or that.
A couple of weeks ago, I wrote Are You Walking the Talk?, in which I encouraged you to act on your words. Today, I ask you to think about the words you’re putting out into the world and those you’re saying to yourself.
I am not a salesperson. I am not outgoing. I am terrible at marketing. I am bad at following up.
Sure you have. We all have. And we all need to be aware of how these are limitations we impose on ourselves.
Every time you use any of these sentences, or similar, you are giving up. You’re telling a story about yourself that will stick. You’re defining yourself in the negative.
These are self-fulfilling prophecies. You can’t say, “I’m terrible at marketing” without being terrible at marketing.
Whenever you find you’re defining yourself in the negative, remember that you have the power to shape your story. How you choose to define yourself will influence how others look at you and think of you.
Will you define yourself in terms of limitations and failings? Or . . .
Will you define yourself in terms hopes and aspirations?
Opt for the Positive
I am one of the last people who will pontificate about the power of positive thinking. It’s just not my thing. But I do know this . . .
The minute you decide you have limitations, you will be forever bound by those constraints.
Next time you catch yourself saying “I’m bad at X” or “I am not Y,” turn it around. Make it a positive: